2Consider it nothing but joy, my brothers and sisters, whenever you fall into various trials.‡ 3Be assured that the testing of your faith [through experience] produces endurance [leading to spiritual maturity, and inner peace].‡
4And let endurance have its perfect result and do a thorough work, so that you may be perfect and completely developed [in your faith], lacking in nothing.
James 1:2-4, The Amplified Study Bible, eBook. Zondervan. Kindle Edition.
This command just isn’t natural. It isn’t natural to rejoice whenever you fall into various trials. It isn’t even natural to be able to do this. Only by faith and with the help of Holy Spirit, can you do this.
Ask for such faith and receive it. Ask for wisdom, receive it, and act on the wisdom you receive.
Read on in James 1 if you need help with receiving such wisdom; the directions are clear. Follow the directions our Lord has given us.
What I write here is sharp and to the point. There is no softening of what I call for you to do. Your life is much better when you are doing this. You are not being pampered: go do this.
Your life will change!